1) Introduction
Over the last 15 years I have been on a roller-coaster ride of emotions and experiences, reaching the highest of highs, whilst trying to avoid the lows. I hope my blog can benefit other wives and help them realise that they are not alone, whilst shedding some light on why our husbands want us to be hotwives and how we can meet their sexual needs, without compromising our own needs/values.
I must first explain that I am not a dominant hotwife, I am a VIXEN hotwife and my husband is not a cuckold, he is a STAG. Let me explain: Stag cuckolds are typically heterosexual men who get off on the idea of their wives or girlfriends being with other men but do not really fit the historical term cuckold. Cuckolds seek humiliation and debasement and possible homosexual encounters, and there is nothing wrong with that, to each his own fetish. However, this blog is aimed at wives/girlfriends who's husbands are stag cuckolds. Stags share with cuckolds the desire to see their partners take on extra lovers (while they remain monogamous) but for the stag cuckold this is always by consent and any humiliation aspect is just a playful erotic teasing game with his wife, rather than any real desire to be humiliated. He is a strong type that simply derives huge erotic pleasure from seeing his wife or girlfriend being so alluring that nobody could resist her. He considers it only natural and very arousing that she'll need and deserve sexual satisfaction from others, as well as him. He holds a genuine love and respect for his wife or girlfriend with whom he shares this erotic and fun lifestyle. For this reason the proper term for the male partner is a Stag cuckold or just STAG rather than cuckold. The wife/girlfriend of a stag is called a VIXEN. A Vixen hotwife does not aim to dominate or control her partner and humiliate him, but chooses to fulfil his desires to see her become a hotwife in a caring way. Stag cuckolds and vixen hotwives share the power in their relationship and undertake a sexual journey together, as a couple. This behaviour ranges from merely sharing the fantasy and acting out role play scenarios to exhibitionism and Hotwifing (where the wife undertakes sexual activity with other men). The reasons for hotwifing have always been around and lie deep in our evolutionary history as a species. Historically, many men who have been disabled, or suffer sexual dysfunction have also sought a stag/vixen relationship. More recent factors such as female empowerment, better contraceptive choices, ease of online communication and information, combined with the increased amount of pornography used by men in their sexually developmental years have meant that stag/vixen relationships are an increasing growing phenomenon, coming out of the shadows to the edge of the mainstream.
I must first explain that I am not a dominant hotwife, I am a VIXEN hotwife and my husband is not a cuckold, he is a STAG. Let me explain: Stag cuckolds are typically heterosexual men who get off on the idea of their wives or girlfriends being with other men but do not really fit the historical term cuckold. Cuckolds seek humiliation and debasement and possible homosexual encounters, and there is nothing wrong with that, to each his own fetish. However, this blog is aimed at wives/girlfriends who's husbands are stag cuckolds. Stags share with cuckolds the desire to see their partners take on extra lovers (while they remain monogamous) but for the stag cuckold this is always by consent and any humiliation aspect is just a playful erotic teasing game with his wife, rather than any real desire to be humiliated. He is a strong type that simply derives huge erotic pleasure from seeing his wife or girlfriend being so alluring that nobody could resist her. He considers it only natural and very arousing that she'll need and deserve sexual satisfaction from others, as well as him. He holds a genuine love and respect for his wife or girlfriend with whom he shares this erotic and fun lifestyle. For this reason the proper term for the male partner is a Stag cuckold or just STAG rather than cuckold. The wife/girlfriend of a stag is called a VIXEN. A Vixen hotwife does not aim to dominate or control her partner and humiliate him, but chooses to fulfil his desires to see her become a hotwife in a caring way. Stag cuckolds and vixen hotwives share the power in their relationship and undertake a sexual journey together, as a couple. This behaviour ranges from merely sharing the fantasy and acting out role play scenarios to exhibitionism and Hotwifing (where the wife undertakes sexual activity with other men). The reasons for hotwifing have always been around and lie deep in our evolutionary history as a species. Historically, many men who have been disabled, or suffer sexual dysfunction have also sought a stag/vixen relationship. More recent factors such as female empowerment, better contraceptive choices, ease of online communication and information, combined with the increased amount of pornography used by men in their sexually developmental years have meant that stag/vixen relationships are an increasing growing phenomenon, coming out of the shadows to the edge of the mainstream.